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Manifestation for 2022: What do you claim this New Year?

Can you really attract what you want, with positive thinking and what could go right?

With Manifestation and law of attraction trending, it boils down to this-- if you believe it, it will come true.

Artists like Lizzo and Ariana Grande have manifested their long time goals.

Changing our thinking can be difficult especially in a time that's challenging but you have to start by picturing yourself where you want to be without thinking how you'll get there. Of course there are many ways to manifest something or attract what you want. Here are a few tips from Author Becki Rabin, of ‘You Are Powerful: The Secret To Everyday Manifestation'

"You haven't been clear about what you want
Might sound silly, but do you know what it Is that you want? Like really know. Many people when starting their manifesting journey of course want ‘better’ or ‘more’ but when asked what it really is that they want, they can’t answer. If you do not know what you want, how can you expect the universe to know? How can you take action that is aligned with your desires? How can you go out there and get it?
"The fix: Be specific and get super clear on what it really is that you want! Saying that you want a relationship isn’t enough, what kind of relationship do you want? How do you want to feel in that relationship? What things do you do in that relationship? If you ask for just a relationship and don’t specify, the universe might send you a crappy one! You want jam on toast with a side order of mushrooms, you are going to make sure you ask the waiter for the mushrooms right? You gotta be as specific with your desires so that the waiter can deliver it.

You're focusing too much on the problems in your life

The fix: Focus on all that is good in your life so that you can be a magnet for more of it. Give your energy, attention, thoughts behaviors and beliefs to all the experiences, things and people who make you feel good. Practicing gratitude is a powerful tool for this – what can you be grateful for in your life that is already there? Focus on that. Choose to focus on the possibilities and the great things you already have in your life over the problems, and you will become attractive AF to more good things!

You aren't being precious with your energy

The fix: You have got to raise your vibe girl. You have got to choose feeling happy over feeling crappy! It is time to step into that higher version of you and focus your energy and attention to becoming the best version of you. Emitting those good vibes by getting good at feeling good and doing things that make you feel good.

Some great ways to raise and protect your vibe are:

  • Surround yourself with high vibe people

  • Using positive words and language

  • Listen to your intuition

  • Live in purpose, passion and do what you love

  • Decontaminate your environment - (limit alcohol and toxic substances)

  • Prioritize hobbies and activities that make you fee good.

You aren't trusting that it's on its way

Did the universe hear me? Do I need to keep asking? Is it really coming? When? How long do I have to wait? Why hasn’t it come yet? Do I need to do anything else? Did I do it wrong?

These are very common questions when starting out, very common mistakes. Do you really believe that it is coming? Because if you don’t my love, it won’t. It can be super easy when starting out on your manifesting journey to get caught up in the ‘who what, when and how’ but this is slowing down your manifestations.

The fix: Trust trust and more trust. Trust that the universe heard you and that your desires are on their way. Trust that you don’t need to figure out the how or the when, you can let the universe do all of that. If you are following the principles outlined in my book, then your desires are on their way. I promise you. When you feel like your manifesting isn’t working and you have done the work, it might be as simple as it just isn’t your time yet. We can do all the practices to get us into alignment with what we want, but sometimes, we have just got to let go and know that the universe will send us when the time is right. Keep faith that it is coming, the universe heard you the first time!

You haven't changed your thinking

Your thoughts play a HUGE role in what you manifest into this world. Why? Because they have a snowball effect on everything. Your thinking creates how you feel, which inspires how you behave, which in turn – creates your reality. It all starts with a thought and 90% of our thoughts are the same as the day before. So, if you are thinking negatively about yourself, or what you are deserving of having, then you are likely to feel negatively and take negative action, which guess what = negative results. If you want to start a business for example, but you don’t think you are capable, you are likely to feel pretty underconfident and scared, how does that then make you behave? Well, you likely take no action on your dream of starting a business because you are too scared it will fail. So how does your reality change – it doesn’t. It stays the same.

The fix: You must do the work on changing your thinking and belief system to knowing that you are capable, powerful worthy and deserving of what you want. Whatever it is that you want to manifest into your life, get clear on what your current thoughts and beliefs about having it and then look at how can you reframe them to more a more positive outlook? If you want to manifest more money, but you think it is impossible – it is going to be impossible. Change that thinking and choose the thought that earning more money is possible, it is easy and you are excited for it to come! That kind of thinking will bring you the $$!

You aren't passing the tests you're being sent

The fix: Get clear on what it is that you really want and then identify your negotiables and non-negotiables what are you willing to settle for and what aren’t you? You “pass” tests by responding to them in a state of high self-worth and NOT settling for anything less. Knowing that the real deal is on its way.

You are too attached to the outcome

The fix: Get clear on what you want then whole heartedly sit back with patience trusting that it is on its way! Ever wondered how the things you seem to want the least come the quickest? Or how when you just think of something then forget about it and it comes? That is because you got clear and then you let go and enjoyed the ride! Take away the conditions knowing that you can be happy, feel loved, looked after, safe or high vibe without your manifestations. If you wait for your manifestations to fill a void or make you feel a certain way you are giving all of your incredible power away. You and only you have the power to make you feel a certain way!"

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